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How to Work with a Virtual Assistant (7 Simple Tips That Actually Work)

April 13, 2026•3 min read

Running a small business means juggling all the things.

At some point, you realise you can’t (and shouldn’t) do it all yourself, but hiring a full-time employee isn’t the right move just yet.

That’s where a Virtual Assistant (VA) comes in. A VA gives you flexible, cost-effective support so you can offload tasks, free up your time, and focus on what actually moves your business forward.

What is a Virtual Assistant?

A Virtual Assistant is a self-employed professional who provides administrative, technical, or operational support remotely.

Because VAs are independent contractors there are no employee overheads, no office space required and no equipment to provide. You get experienced support, when you need it. #winwin

How to Work Effectively with a VA

If you want to get the most out of working with a VA, here are seven simple tips that will make all the difference:

1. Know what you want to outsource

Before you bring a VA on board, get clear on what you actually want help with.

Start by listing everything you do in your business, then split it into:

  • tasks you need or enjoy doing

  • tasks you don’t enjoy or don’t need to be doing

That second list? That’s your starting point ...

2. Choose the right VA

Not all VAs offer the same services, and that’s a good thing. Look for someone who has experience in the areas you need, understands your business and feels like a good fit for how you work.

Do your research. Check their website, socials, and reviews. You want someone who gets it and you feel you can click with.

3. Set clear communication expectations

Good communication makes everything easier.

Decide early on how you’ll communicate (email, Asana, Slack, etc.), how often you'll have checkins and expected response times.

This avoids confusion and keeps everything running smoothly.

4. Give clear instructions

Clarity upfront saves time later. When delegating tasks, be specific about:

  • what needs to be done

  • when it’s due

  • any preferences or important details

The clearer you are, the less back-and-forth you’ll need. You could also provide a sample of how it's been done in the past as a starting point.

5. Make feedback part of the process

Feedback helps your VA do their best work. If something’s working well, say so. But more importantly, if something needs adjusting, say that too.

And remember, it goes both ways. Your VA may have suggestions to make things even better.

6. Build trust (and let go a little)

This is a big one ... Your VA is there to support you, not to be micromanaged.

Start small if you need to, but as trust builds, allow them to take ownership of tasks. The ideal is that you get to a place where you don't even have to think about that particular task anymore because you know your VA has it covered!

7. Be flexible

Most VAs work with multiple clients, so a little flexibility goes a long way. With clear expectations and good systems in place, you’ll find a rhythm that works for both of you.

Final Thoughts

Working with a Virtual Assistant can completely change the way you run your business.

With the right setup, clear communication, and a bit of trust, you’ll not only get things off your plate, you’ll create more space to focus on what you do best.

And that’s where the magic really happens.

Ready to get things off your plate?

If you’ve been thinking about working with a VA but aren’t sure where to start, let’s chat.

👉 Book a virtual coffee catchup and we’ll talk through what support could look like in your business.

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Marie Robertson-King

Hi, I'm Marie, Head Empress at Empress of Order. Before starting my business in 2018, I spent 20 years building and running systems in mining, aviation and oil and gas, so bringing order to chaos is basically my love language. These days I help women in business get their systems, tools and email marketing sorted, from MailerLite setups to done-for-you newsletters, so nothing slips through the cracks. I'm a MailerLite Expert and Asana Ambassador, and I live in the Perth Hills with my husband Simon and our fur-baby Jasper. Coffee in the morning, champagne in the evening.

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